You'll Be to Me a Holy Nation
Contemporary Gadolim on
Obligations and Exemptions in Positive Time-Bound Commandments
Why are women
exempt from certain commandments to which men are obligated? This question has
fascinated some and troubled others. As with any conundrum, we turn to the
great scholars of our era, our gadolim for answers. R’ Moshe Feinstein,
the Lubavitcher Rebbe, R’ Joseph Soloveitchik, and R’ Avigdor Miller each
approached the matter in similar fashion and stressed the general equality of
holiness and spiritual worthiness of the two sexes and the differences in their
respective roles and natures. Let’s have a look at their words.
The positive
time-bound commandments are a group of commandments that require positive
action, such as putting on tefillin or sitting in a succah. One can contrast
these from commandments that consist of refraining from action like theft or
eating forbidden foods. Additionally, these actions are bound by time. Tefillin
are worn only in the day-time during weekdays and not on yom tov. Recitation of the Shema is commanded only in the morning
and at night. Contrast these with the commandments to engage in acts of chesed
or to love God, positive activities that can be done at any time.
While men are
obligated to perform positive time-bound commandments, women are exempt from
having to perform most of them; although for various reasons they are obligated
in nearly as many, such as kiddush and matzah, as those in which
they are exempt. In a letter discussing the exemption, (Igros Moshe, Orach Chaim IV #49) R’ Moshe Feinstein reminds us
first and foremost that “The exemption of women from positive time-bound
commandments is [a decree] from the Torah.” In other words, God decreed this
exemption and the Talmud detailed the exegetical mechanism that memorializes
it. The Gemara in Kiddushin that
tells us that women are exempt from limud
Torah because the verse says “teach it to your sons,” thus exempting
daughters and females in general. As the verse commanding tefillin follows that of limud
Torah, we extend the exemption to tefillin
and to all mitzvos like it, namely
ones involving positive action that are triggered by time-bound events. (Kiddushin 29b) The Talmud discusses the
exemption only in technical terms.
The positive
time-bound commandments and its exemption for women fall into a group of
commandments called chukim or
decrees. While the imperative for observance of chukim is explicit, the personal and societal benefits are not.
Other examples of chukim include shatnez, the prohibition against wearing
a garment composed of wool and linen, and the Parah Adumah, the ceremony of the Red Hefer. These can be
contrasted with mishpatim, or
ordinances, a group of commandments with obvious personal and societal benefits.
Examples of mishpatim include the
prohibitions against theft, immorality, and blasphemy. R’ Joseph B.
Soloveitchik described chukim as
follows:
Analyzing the Hok. Rashi cites a Rabbinic comment on the Parah Adumah rite:
"It is a decree ordained by Me. You have no right to question it"
(Num. 19:2). This suggests that the hok can be defined as an absolute
norm and an ultimate command, demanding total submission without reservations.
It is to be affirmed even if "Satan and the nations of the world taunt
Israel," ridiculing its irrationality. The observant Jew accepts the Torah
even as a patient follows the prescription of his doctor, taking complex
medications and submitting to required surgical procedures. We may seek to
understand and make all possible inquiries, but ultimately we accept it on
faith. The Lord, Creator and Healer of all flesh, undoubtedly knows what is
best for our bodies and souls as well as what is harmful to them. (Reflections of the Rav, p. 100)
Seemingly by design, chukim
test us to accept the will of God and not demand reasons for everything He asks
of us. We have myriad commandments with societal and personal purposes that are
obvious or explained in the Torah. But at the heart of all commandments is the
simple command from God. With chukim,
this aspect of commandments is not obscured by any obvious reasons as people
tend to think of them.
However, we can
attempt to surmise secondary reasons as long as we realize that they are
secondary. R’ Feinstein explained as follows:
And besides the
reasons of the Torah which are unknown to regular people and to the great
scholars, and we are required to believe that there are great reasons of Hashem
who gave the Torah, [besides this], there are [non-ultimate] reasons revealed
to everyone. [In the matter of the exemption of women from positive time-bound
mitzvahs] the average woman is not wealthy and has responsibility to raise sons
and daughters. This [task] is most important work for Hashem and His Torah and
so Hashem made each species so that the woman should raise the offspring.
Humans are no exception. The nature of women enables them to raise children.
Along those lines, it [the burden] was made easier on the women by not
requiring them to learn Torah and to perform positive time-bound mitzvahs.
The reason of
family duties, most notably the sanctified rearing of children was first
offered by numerous Rishonim such as
the Abudraham, the Ritva, and the Tosfos HaRid.
R’ Feinstein adds an important thought that should shed some
light on the question of relative holiness or spirituality:
You should know that
all of this [the exemption of women from positive time-bound commandments] is
not because women are on a lower level of holiness than are men. While
obligation in commandments results strictly from one's having holiness, men and
women, in that sense, are equal in holiness. All the verses in the Torah
regarding holiness refer also to women. [This applies from] the beginning
[with] the arrangement to receive the Torah [at Sinai]. "You'll be to me a
treasure and you'll be to me a holy nation." Exodus 19:6. [The subject of
this verse is all of the nation of Israel] as it says "house of
Jacob" in referring to the women and "tell to the house of
Israel" in referring to the men. Exodus 19:3.
[The references to
men and women in all verses regarding holiness extends also after Sinai with]
"You'll be for me a people of holiness," parshas Mishpatim,
"you'll be holy," parshas Shimini, "holy you'll be and you'll be
holy," parshas Kedoshim, and "and a nation of holy people you are to
Hashem" parshas Re’eh. Women also [as well as men] are referred to in
every mention of holiness.
Therefore women also
include in their blessings the words "you have sanctified us with your
commandments." [Women do this] even when performing commandments for which
they are not obligated. [The exclusion of women from positive time-bound
commandments] is a leniency made by Hashem for his own reasons and not because
of any diminution [regarding the women] Heaven forbid.
In other words, commandments are imposed on people due to
their holiness. Women, being equal to men in holiness with regard to mitzvos, have the necessary holiness,
but the Torah had reasons to exempt them. We don’t say that they are exempt
because of their holiness. We say that they have the holiness that would
obligate them, but the Torah exempted them.
This aligns with
our general understanding of obligation in commandments. Cohanim have extra commandments yet we recognize Cohanim as having extra holiness. See Yevamos (5a) where Chazal use this
approach to consider why the Torah
contains a special verse commanding Cohanim
with leprosy to shave their heads. The Kings of Israel, like David and Solomon,
have extra commandments. Our great tzadickim
take on a bigger religious burden than the rest of us. For example, I have a
neighbor who as a child used to hold a book of mishnayos open for R’ Feinstein to read in between Torah readings
at his yeshiva in the Lower East Side. R’ Feinstein, being greater than the
rest of us, took on extra-mitzvah activity during that time when most people
just wait for the next Torah reading. Rabbis often tell people, you are not
ready to take on that chumrah, that
stringency or that extra activity. As we grow in our religious lives, we take
on more mitzvah related activity. So while mitzvos certainly train and
better us, they train and better a pre-existing spirituality. As R' Feinstein
explains in his commentary on Chumash:
The mitzvah of You shall be
holy, which is followed by a recitation of several of the fundamental mitzvos,
is not of the same type as the mitzvos that follow it. This mitzvah
means that every Jew should realize that he is sanctified with the holiness of
the Jew, and it is only because of that holiness that we were given the Torah
and obligated to do the mitzvos. As I have often written, mitzvos
cannot be fulfilled properly unless the doer has the holiness of the Jew. The Kohanim,
who have additional mitzvos, must have the particular holiness of Kohanim.
This is why we make a blessing before mitzvos and say, "Who has
sanctified us with His mitzvos"; and Kohanim, before doing mitzvos
that are limited to Kohanim, say, "Who has sanctified us with the
sanctity of Aharon." The expression "Who has sanctified us with His mitzvos"
should not be misunderstood as meaning that mitzvos are the source of
the sanctity. It is self-understood that the sanctity the blessing refers to is
the underlying sanctity of every Jew -- that which enables us to fulfill the mitzvos.
(R' Moshe Feinstein, Darash Moshe, Volume II, p. 154, Vayikra, Kedoshim)
One sees this idea of obligation in commandments being
imposed due to pre-existing ruchnius
utilized by the Magen Avraham in his
commentary Zi’es Ra’anan on Yalkut Shimoni, Shmuel 1:1 and the Maharal in Tiferes
Israel 4 and 28 and Chidushei Agados,
Makkos 23b. To paraphrase the
Maharal, commandments connect us to God, but we must be fit for the connection.
According to R’ Feinstein, women are equipped with the requisite holiness, but
the Torah had reasons to exempt them.
The Lubavitcher Rebbe, R’ Menachem Mendel
Schneerson, took an approach similar to that of R’ Feinstein and elaborated on
the dynamics of the exemption. He explained that men and women as generic
groups have shared and differing tasks and that individuals have their own
missions.
We shall resolve
this difficulty by first explaining why in general there are certain mitzvos
which women are not obligated to carry out. It is not because women are
inferior to men. It is because G-d has given each Jew a mission uniquely suited
to the individual: A task for men and a separate task for women – and a mission
common to both men and women. (Sichos in English, Iyar-Tammuz 5744, Vol. 21, pp.
69-72)
The
exemption, which indicates neither inferiority nor superiority (or presumably
he would have proposed the latter while refuting the former), allows these
distinctive roles to take shape. The stress is on the differences between (not
the ranking of) the two sexes and their respective roles. He continued:
The relationship
between men and women may be compared to the workings of a person’s body. All
of a person’s limbs are part of the one body; yet each limb has a different
function: the head – intellect, the heart – emotions, etc. Thus the body has
two separate – but simultaneous – dimensions. On the one hand, all its limbs
share the same life-force: the blood circulates to all its limbs, and only when
circulation in all limbs is proper is the body healthy. Simultaneously, each
limb has its own distinct character and function.
Within the body of
Jewry, the same two dimensions are operative. There are some aspects of Torah
which men and women share equally. For example, the mitzvah, “Love your fellow
as yourself.” Since this mitzvah is most important for the continuing health of
Jewry – it is Jewry’s “life force” – it devolves upon men and women equally.
Similarly, the mitzvah, “to know that there is a First Being” – knowledge, not
just faith – is obligatory upon women as upon men.
Simultaneously,
there are aspects of Judaism in which men and women differ, with special
missions given to a man and others to a woman. So that each can carry out his
or her task fully, he or she is freed from other obligations. Although these other
obligations are holy matters, the full and proper accomplishment of one’s
special tasks demands that one be freed of these other obligations.
For men to carry out
their task for example, they are freed of duties such as rearing children from
birth. To this end, G-d created the world such that a child, in his early
years, needs and is dependent on his mother specifically.
In similar fashion,
women were freed of certain obligations so that they can devote themselves
fully to their unique task. A child’s education in his early years, for
example, is the mother’s responsibility, and to this end, women are freed from
the obligation to fulfill certain mitzvos which men are duty-bound to do. Women
are thus able to devote all their energies to their unique mission.
Women and
men are each freed from the other group's tasks so that they can focus on the
unique aspects of their respective purpose.
So do women have no connection to the
positive time-bound mitzvos? Are the mitzvos irrelevant to them?
The Rebbe continued:
In the above
described relationship between men and women – that each is freed of certain
duties so that they can properly carry out their primary mission – a wonderful
element is introduced. Because G-d is whole and perfect, He implanted the trait
of wholeness and perfection also in Torah and mitzvos. Thus, although women are
not obligated to perform certain mitzvos, they can still attain the state of
wholeness and perfection effected through fulfilling these mitzvos – although
they do not actually perform them! How?
Women are freed from
performing mitzvos which are obligatory only at a specific time (e.g., tzitzis,
which is obligatory only during the day). The AriZal writes concerning such
mitzvos: “When the male performs the mitzvah, it is unnecessary that the woman
should also do them separately, for she has already been included with him at
the time when he does the mitzvah ... This is the meaning of our Sages’
statement, ‘One’s wife is as one’s body.’” Similarly, the Zohar says that a man
(or woman) alone is “half a body.”
In other words, when
Torah frees a woman from certain mitzvos, it frees her only from doing them— so
that she can devote her time and energies to her unique mission. The state of
wholeness and perfection that is attained, and the reward that accrues, from
these mitzvos, does pertain to women also — through her husband performing
them.
So the woman
is exempt so that she may take care of the family. But we do not say that she
is disconnected from the mitzvah. She connects to it through her husband. And
what about the unmarried woman? Says the Rebbe, “This applies even to a girl
before she is married, through the fact that her destined partner in marriage
performs the mitzvos she is not obligated to do. For just as a man and a woman
are but “half a body” before marriage, and are whole only when married, so too
their soul is whole only when they are together: that is, a man and wife have a
single soul.”
When asked about
women and tefillin during the Q&A sessions of one of his famous Thursday
night classes in Brooklyn, R’ Avigdor Miller gave an answer very similar to
that of the Lubavitcher Rebbe. He said as follows:
Every father puts on tzitzis and tefillin for all of his
children and for his wife, too. There's no question that tzitzis and tefillin
are the property of the Am Yisroel. But, more precisely, the family shares in
all the mitzvos. So while he's putting on tzitzis and tefillin in the shul,
let's say, and his wife is taking care of the children at home, somebody has to
remain at home – he couldn't go to the synagogue if she weren't home. There's
no question that it’s her tzitzis and her tefillin. That's the way to
understand it. (Q&A: Thursday Nights with Rabbi Miller, pp. 189-190)
Once again
we see that the married couple and even the family are one unit when it comes
to their connection to tefillin and the positive time-bound commandments.
The idea of
connection to commandments to which one is not personally commanded is found in
the commentary of R’ Moshe Trani (16th century), also known as the Mabit. The Gemara tells us that the 365
negative commandments correspond to the days of the year and the 248 positive
commandments correspond to the organs and limbs of the body (Makkos 23b). This suggests that each
person is commanded in the total of 613. However, no person is commanded in all
613 mitzvos. Cohanim have special mitzvos
as do Leviim, kings, courts, men, and
women. Many mitzvos are not
applicable in golus. The Sefer
HaChinuch says that only 369 of the 613 are relevant to anyone today. (Sefer HaChinuch, HaErus HaMeChaver).
Some mitzvos depend on circumstance. Cohanim are prohibited from mitzvos
like attending to the dead.
So how do we
connect to all the 613 mitzvos? The Mabit
says we do this by being willing to do anything the Torah asks of us (Mabit, Kiriyas Sefer, Hakdama, chapter 7). When
an Israel says, I would do birchas
cohanim if the Torah required me to, then he connects to the mitzvah of birchas cohanim; likewise, if a woman
says I would wear tefillin daily if the Torah asked it of me. This is how she
connects to tefillin. One connects to mitzvos
incumbent on the courts by displaying respect for the courts.
R’ Joseph B.
Soloveitchik approached the topic of chukim in general in a manner
reminiscent of the first part of R' Moshe Feinstein's letter. In a conversation
with students on parshas Chukas, he discussed the pitfalls of looking
for reasons for chukim and illustrates this with the matter of the
disqualification of women as witnesses. He did not discuss positive time-bound mitzvos
specifically, but his comments are applicable to our topic. He cited the Rambam
in warning against mockery of the chukim even as a person inquires
legitimately into Torah laws. The Rambam said that such mockery of chukim
is worse than misappropriation of sanctified objects as the latter were
originally secular objects such as wood that were set aside for holy purposes
but the former are holy from the outset as established by the Almighty. R’
Soloveitchik points out that the Rambam's intent was not to promote observance
of the laws as people in his day were observant but rather to warn against
projection of secular ideas onto them. Such would constitute mockery of the chukim:
What is the Rambam
interested in? In our psychological, axiological approach towards chukim.
Against ascribing lesser significance to chukim, or secularizing them.
In other words, one must not interpret chukim in practical terms, and
inject contemporary meaning in them.
You'll ask me, what
is the practical interpretation of chukim? If a rabbi tries to interpret
ma'achalos assuros [forbidden food] in terms of hygiene and sanitation.
Or taharas ha'mishpacha in terms of sexual psychology, as I once heard a
rabbi say, that taharas ha'mishpacha contributes to family bliss, and
actually taharas ha'mishpacha accomplishes the miracle that the whole
married life is one long honeymoon. This is exactly what the Rambam meant
should not be done. You don't accomplish anything by it. You don't achieve
anything by it. Educated people, intelligent people, scientific minds, they
cannot be so easily fooled. (The Rav Thinking Aloud on the Parsha, Sefer
Bamidbar, pp. 156)
As brought
earlier, Rabbi Soloveitchik said regarding chukim that “We may seek to
understand and make all possible inquiries, but ultimately we accept it on
faith.” Thus, when pursuing reasons, we must proceed very carefully and not
fabricate reasons that actually lead to ridicule of the chukim either by
our logic or by how far we push that logic. Over-simplification would seem to
be a key danger.
R' Soloveitchik explained elsewhere that
the halakha is driven by technical constructs something like that of
sophisticated scientific thought. In a conversation with students on parshas
Korach, he noted that Aristotle's simplistic approach to science was built
strictly on observation. In Aristotle's view, gravitational pull was the result
of the weight of objects as that is what appears to the eye. Modern science,
starting with Galileo and continuing through Newton and unto today, concludes
the opposite, that weight is the result of gravitational pull. The former view
is empirical and commonsense, the latter conceptual. Says R' Soloveitchik,
“Newton discarded commonsense and approached the matter from the viewpoint of
the esoteric, abstract, creative, conceptualizing logos.” He continues:
This method of
quantification was part of the greatest discovery in the annals of mankind. Of
course, if we had been satisfied - not we, the seventeenth century - with
Aristotlean physics, we couldn't climb now to the moon. Don't you think that halachah
is also entitled to such a theoretical basis? We have, as I stated above, our
unique logical and epistemological approach to halachah. Torah sheh
b'al peh is not just a compilation of laws. It's more than that.
Mathematics is more than just a corpus of equations. Ask any mathematician who
is intelligent, what is math? He wouldn't tell you a corpus of equations. No
physicist who understands physics will tell you that physics is a collection of
natural laws or equations. Basically, science is a method. Mathematics is a
method. It's a method of thinking, a unique logos. So is the Torah sheh-b'al
peh. The laws and statutes are of utmost significance. However, if you
discard the view that Torah sheh-b'al peh is a system of thought
structures and unique logical categories which are accessible to the human mind
only if the latter is willing to subject itself to a rigid and tough training,
then you open up the floodgates and any ignoramus may claim authority the way
Korach did. (The Rav Thinking Aloud on the Parsha, Sefer Bamidbar, pp.
141-2)
According to R' Soloveitchik, this
understanding of the Talmudic method helps us to understand the reason that
women are disqualified from serving as witnesses. The disqualification is not a
matter of lack of qualification in the axiological sense, ie. it says nothing
about the value of women. It is the result of technical constructs. A melech
or Jewish king is also disqualified from giving testimony. Says R'
Soloveitchik:
If the melech ha'Moshiach were present at the wedding
I also wouldn't invite him, because he is also disqualified to bear witness.
Would we say all Jews are superior to the melech ha'Moshiach? A king is
disqualified to bear witnesses mi'd'oraisa, like an isha. The
king Messiah, or King David, or King Solomon, or Moshe Rabbeinu himself are
disqualified to bear witness. And a wood-chopper, an ignorant person, a bor
mi'd'oraisa is kashur l'eidus. (The Rav Thinking Aloud on the
Parsha, Sefer Bamidbar, p. 143)
R' Soloveitchik asked if anyone would
conclude that the Messiah is inferior by virtue of his disqualification. He
said, “If you operate with commonsense categories - yes. Korach operated with commonsense
categories, and he was right with his conclusion that if the whole robe is made
of purple material it certainly should be exempt from tzitzis. But from
the viewpoint of the exact, precise, unique halachic categories psul l'eidus
is not indicative at all of the station of the woman in society, in the
halachic community.” In other words, just as Aristotle was incorrect to use
plain thinking to evaluate gravity, we would be incorrect to use such thinking
to evaluate the disqualification of kings and women from giving testimony. It
is not what it seems.
So what is the station of the woman? Like R’ Feinstein and the Lubavitcher Rebbe,
R’ Soloveitchik stressed the differences in the roles for men and women and the
general equality in their spiritual worthiness. Basing his comments on the
creation of the first man and woman in God’s image, he says:
The foremost
distinguishing characteristic bestowed upon man is his Divine image, his tzelem
Elohim, which denotes particular qualitative endowments, such as a moral
sense, free will, and intellect. Man partakes of these attributes within human
limitations, while God's representation of these qualities is absolute.
Maimonides embodied man's likeness to God primarily in terms of his intellect
(Guide 1: 1). This Divine gift was given to both men and women. "And God
created man with His image. In the image of God, He created him; male and
female He created them" (Gen. 1:27). In their spiritual natures, they were
equally worthy. (Man
of Faith in the Modern World, p. 84).
He said in
his discussion of women and testimony, “The Chumash in Bereishis
says that when God created man בצלם אלקים ברא אתם . Man and woman were created in the
Image of God. Equality was taken for granted. If two personae were created in
the image of God, you cannot say one is superior to the other.” (The Rav
Thinking Aloud on the Parsha, Sefer Bamidbar, pp. 142-3)
R’ Soloveitchik finds equality as well in
the potential for either sex to achieve prophecy.
The mere fact that among our prophets we find women to whom
God has addressed Himself is clear proof that we never differentiated between
the sexes axiologically. (Family Redeemed,
pp. 71-2; Axiology = Philosophical theory of value)
While equal in spiritual worth, their roles
differ and so should their very sense of identity:
Man and woman are both worthy of communing with God, the highest form of
human perfection and self-fulfillment. However, the Halakhah has discriminated
between axiological equality pertaining to their Divine essence and
metaphysical uniformity at the level of the existential personal experience.
Man and woman are different personae, endowed with singular qualities
and assigned distinct missions in life...The contrast manifesting itself in
tension and sympathy, in longing for and shying away from each other, and
portraying a metaphysical cleavage in personal existence must not be
eliminated.
If the distinctive
features of the bi-personalism are erased the blessed existential polarity out
of which a rich, fruitful marriage is born is dispensed with, a tragic event of
tremendous significance for the welfare of society. If the woman does not
experience the particular and unique in her existential awareness, if the man
fails to feel the paradoxical and strange in his being masculine, if both are
not cognizant of the incommensurability of their ontic patterns, then this Gleichschaltung,
this bringing into line, impoverishes marriage which was blessed by the Creator
with richness and variety. The latter can only be attained if man and woman
complete, not duplicate, each other. (Family Redeemed, p. 72; Ontic = having
real being, Gleichschaltung = the act, process, or policy of
achieving rigid and total coordination and uniformity, Merriam-Webster)
According to
R’ Soloveitchik, the success of marriage depends on our maintenance of gender
distinctions in our identities.
R’ Miller also spoke of the souls of men
and women via the language of equality and explained that the reason for
obligation in the positive time-bound commandments for men and exemption for
women was to give each sex different paths to perfection. The starting point is
the same. His comments appeared in several Thursday night Q&A sessions. As
with R’ Feinstein and the Lubavitcher Rebbe, the basic reason for the exemption
is to allow the woman to engage in a life of chesed by taking care of the family.
As we know, men are commanded to perform mitzvos asei
she'haz'man grama, time-bound mitzvos. Women, on the other hand, are not
required to perform these mitzvos. What is the reason for this difference? The
answer is that women have other important obligations to tend to, which exempt
her from these commandments. A woman must know that she is a briah shel
chessed, she has been created for the purpose of performing chessed.
Being a wife and mother is a very significant role, and it requires her to be
selfless and totally dedicated to performing chessed! It takes a woman's
entire effort to succeed in being an efficient mother and wife. Investing her
abilities in raising children is very time consuming but is a tremendous zechus
for her! (Rabbi Avigdor Miller Speaks, p. 272)
When asked, “Is
there a difference between the neshamah of a man and a woman?” R’ Miller
answered as follows:
When it comes to the
actual makeup of the neshamah there's no difference, whatsoever. But when it
comes to a person's role in perfecting that neshamah, Hakadosh Baruch Hu has
given each individual a different way and opportunity to go about doing so. For
example, when a woman gets married and dedicates her life to her family, to
someone other than herself, she is transforming her very nature. If a mother
would retain her selfishness, it would be impossible for her to function
successfully in her role. She has her children to worry about; sometimes they
may not be feeling well, and it is she who will be responsible for tending to
them. She has to prepare food for her family, and they rely upon her for many
other things as well. She has to carry a child within her and eventually nurse
that child. In short, she has dedicated her life to others.
But in order for a
mother to be able to perfect her neshamah, she mustn't merely do "acts of
kindness" like the gentiles do. Rather, her chessed should be with
the intention of serving Hashem! This brings Hakadosh Baruch Hu a great amount
of satisfaction, and He therefore exclaims, "By assisting others, you are
helping My people and serving Me in a form that is most desirous." (Rabbi Avigdor Miller Speaks, pp.
245-246.)
[Note: while
R’ Miller equated the makeup of male and female neshamos he referenced the Gemara “woman are a separate nation” to
describe the significant differences in the male and female natures. See Thursday Nights with Rabbi Avigdor Miller,
Vol. II, p. 85]
While the woman has her path for developing
her soul, the man has his:
A man, however, has
to perfect his neshamah in a different way. While a man neither gives birth to
children nor nurses babies, there are still multitudes of ways through which he
can earn perfection. A man must go to work to earn a living, and there are very
many nisyonos that he will encounter throughout his day. An entire
section of Shulchan Aruch was written to deal with the laws that apply
when one has to compete with another for a livelihood! There's a very great
perfection a man can acquire when out making a living! Of course a man is also
required to dedicate a part of his day to Torah learning, and other mitzvos
that a woman wouldn’t have time to perform because of her day to day
responsibilities. We see, therefore, that a man and woman secure perfection for
their respective neshamahs in different ways. (Rabbi Avidgor Miller Speaks, pp.
245-246.)
General equality of holiness and spiritual
worthiness with differences in role and nature. This is the approach of these
leading contemporary sages in explaining these matters to the general public.
Their commentary on the subject provides us with a balanced and dynamic
framework that promotes harmony between the sexes. It should help us to develop
appreciation for halakhic distinctions concerning the positive time-bound mitzvos and gender.
Yisrael Kashkin, 5775
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